It used to be that parents who were active members of the armed forces and deployed were often at a significant disadvantage in custody and visitation cases. However, Connecticut has recently passed legislation designed to minimize the disruption to parents and children caused by deployment. The new law establishes requirements for three different situations: 1….
Before a judge will address visitation schedules for infants and newborns, paternity must be established. Connecticut presumes that the Husband is the biological father of a child born during the marriage. This presumption can be overcome by clear and satisfactory evidence that the Husband is not the child’s natural father. In today’s world, that usually…
Email is a great tool to communicate with your ex – but only if used effectively. Here’s how: 1. Tone. Be polite and courteous even if it pains you. No sarcasm, threats or name calling. And if you are really agitated then take some before you respond. 2. Facts. Keep it business like and stick…
To change a custody order in Connecticut, a Motion for Modification must be filed. First, the judge must determine whether there has been a “substantial change in circumstances” since the time of the last custody order. Second, if there has been a “substantial change in circumstances”, then the judge can modify custody. In making new…
I just read an article about divorce rates. For first-time marriages, the rate was about 50%. That’s pretty high although it’s in line with other studies I have seen. But I was surprised to learn that approximately 67% of second marriages end in divorce. Divorce can cause financial hardship. Even more so for couples going…
A divorce can be a grueling process. No question about it. Reduce your stress level. Here’s how: Just be honest. Be upfront and candid with your lawyer about everything. I realize that sometimes it can be uncomfortable to reveal indiscretions or to admit to mistakes during the marriage. Nevertheless, these discussions allow for effective preparation…