I have heard some people use the terms “shared custody” and “split custody” interchangeably. However, they are very different custodial arrangements.
Shared custody refers to a parenting plan where both parents have equal or at least substantial parenting time with the child(ren). The child(ren) essentially has two homes and spend significant periods at both homes.
Split custody is in arrangement where siblings live in different households. The children are split – hence “split custody”. It does not mean an equal split of parenting time as some use the term. Most judges are reluctant to order split custody. Nonetheless, it does happen on occasion.
Here are few reasons why a judge would order split custody:
1. Informed preferences of a child. One child may have a strong preference and legitimate reasons for living with one parent rather than the other parent. This is far more common with older and mature children.
2. Fighting siblings. Unfortunately, sometimes it’s best for the entire family that siblings not live together. It’s typically more than just not getting along or some form of sibling rivalry. For example, frequent altercations or behavior that’s so disruptive requiring the siblings to reside in separate homes.
3. Relocation. When a parent wishes to move long-distance, one of the children may prefer to stay behind and reside with the other parent while another child relocates. This often occurs in older children where they have strong ties to school, friends and activities in their present community.
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