This article sets forth the most common reasons why spouses struggle with the decision on whether or not to divorce:
To be sure, the decision to end a marriage is certainly not to be taken lightly. The decision in many instances will shape lives forever. Therefore, a divorce should only be filed when alternatives have been considered (i.e. trial separation. marital counseling) and there is no reasonable hope of reconciliation.
Here are some common reasons why spouses put off filing:
1. Financial concerns of maintaining two households.
2. Worry about seeing their children less and how they will adjust to the parent’s splitting.
3. The chance that the marriage can be salvaged and the other spouse will change certain behavior.
4. The psychological effects of a failed marriage and the perceived social stigma that may come with it.