False child abuse allegations leave the alleged perpetrator terrified. What happens next?
When Connecticut DCF investigates allegations of child abuse it falls into of the following categories:
Physical abuse – injuries that are clearly non-accidental or situations where the explanation does not match the nature and extent of the child’s injuries.
Emotional abuse – includes cruel or unconscionable acts or threats that have a direct, adverse emotional impact on the child.
Sexual abuse – consists of any inappropriate contact, exploitation or language.
DCF in Connecticut has a demanding and challenging job – protect children in this state that are victims of abuse.
We must all support that mission.
But there are times when the abuse allegations are simply false. And sometimes DCF does a solid job at separating fact from fiction. Other times – not so much.
False allegations can be malicious such as outright lying by the accused. Other times it’s not as deliberate – like when it involves statements that were result of mental illness and/or a bad soup of medications. Still yet, and perhaps most unforgivable, is when the allegations are the product of suggestive questioning, coaching of the child or faulty interview techniques by “experts.”
Unfortunately, in today’s society, the public tends to assume that abuse claims are true. Even if ultimately exonerated, the accused often bears the social stigma forever.
A few points to consider if you are the accused:
Do not lose your cool with DCF. Understand that they have an incredibly difficult and very worthy job to do. Appreciate that allegations of child abuse must be investigated and taken seriously. Yes – I realize this is easier said than done.
Keep your chin up. Surround yourself with positive people and talk to a professional “chair” if necessary.
Be prepared. Disproving false allegations requires much work and preparation. Get your team lined up – lawyer, private investigator and a forensic psychologist are a solid start.
Do not give up. These cases require a search for the truth and the commitment that goes with it.
Please contact me if you have been the victim of false child abuse allegations.